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When Your Child Says Nothing

Your child may be sad, upset, worried, or just having a difficult day. But when you ask what's wrong, all you hear is “Nothing.”

The StoryHug team

You want to help, but you don't know how to start the conversation.

Here are 5 gentle ways to help your child open up.

A mother sits close beside her quiet daughter on the sofa, one arm around her shoulders, saying nothing yet.

1Sit With Them

You don't always need to ask questions. Sit beside your child, offer a hug, or spend a little quiet time together.

Try saying“I'm right here, sweetheart.”

A little girl sits quietly on the edge of her bed, looking down, while her father pauses at the bedroom door and notices.

2Notice the Little Things

If your child seems quieter than usual, let them know you've noticed without guessing how they feel.

Try saying“You seem a little quiet today.”

A mother leans in from a low stool and gently asks her daughter a question while the girl listens.

3Ask One Gentle Question

Too many questions can feel like pressure. Ask one simple question, then give your child time to answer.

Try saying“Did something make you sad today?”

A father sits on the stairs beside his teary daughter, listening without hurrying her.

4Don't Rush to Fix Everything

When your child is upset, listen before offering advice. Let them know their feelings matter, even when the reason seems small to you.

Try saying“You really wanted that toy, didn't you?”

On the sofa at dusk, a girl holds a tablet playing a story about a little rabbit and tells her mum and dad about it.

5Let a Story Start the Conversation

Sometimes, children find it easier to talk about a story character than themselves. Share a StoryHug story and ask a simple question about how the character feels.

Try asking“How do you think the little rabbit felt?”

Let your child answer in their own way. There's no need to push them to share more.

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